In the Navy.....
As most of you could guess I don't have much luck with men, and Cliff was no exception. I met Cliff online at www.kiss.com. I know I was stupid to even go on to an online dating agency but I only did it for a laugh, I didn't actually think I would meet anyone. Cliff kept whispering me and in the end I gave in and gave him my number and he called me. We got on great and decided to meet. I arranged to meet on neutral territory which was my local, also there would be people around who know me incase I got into trouble.
We got on great and started seeing each other. He was 24 and was a photographer for the US Navy. Even better I though, a guy in uniform. I know the saying about a girl in every port but he said he had been hurt and his last 3 girlfriends had cheated on him and couldn't take it again. I understood him as I have had a few bad relationships. I even took him round to where Pix lived so that her and D could give him the once over. He obviously knew how to work us, he obviously wasn't happy with one girlfriend but found out that he was seeing at least another five girls at the same time, all who he had met on Kiss.
I met two of them and they are absolutely lovely. We confronted him and he denied everything. What was worse was that he had told us all the same bunch of lies and we all took them in hook, line and sinker. We came up with a nick name for him so that our blood wouldn't boil every time his name was mentioned. We all called him benty and I think you can all guess why that was. It was obviously over used.
Well it has been at least three to three and a half months since I have had any thing from him, I had brushed the rubbish back into the gutter where it belongs and the cheeky little git had the cheek to contact me today. I ignored the calls so then he decided to text me a message instead and it said, "Was wonderin if u'd like 2 meet up 4 lunch? i've got the day off and was just wanting 2 c if u'd like that..." I sent back that I would rather not. He sent another asking does that mean I would rather not speak to him as well. I said that it did and that I had moved on to better things. He got the hump because he then said that I must think I am too good for him and that basically I am nothing to write home about and that there are girls with nicer bellies out there than me.
I couldn't help but laugh, sounds a bit like sour grapes to me and some one must have let him down and thought he would try his luck with me again. Like I am gonna be reeled in to his web again, I think I would end up knocking his block off, but I do know there is a queue of people wanting to do that to him. Well i do have to thank him for one thing, he introduced me to two very nice people and we have become great friends.
Those that think with whats in their undewear always gets caught out in the end! A player he ain't........
A friend of mine recently stopped posting on a dating site after meeting up with not one, not two but three psychos through it. In one weekend!
She's now thinking of setting up her own dating website - www.bemystalker.com
Posted by: Dragon | December 01, 2003 at 22:58
Good grief woman, make your mind up! In October you were complaining that "I have men falling at my feet. I know this is nothing unusal but it seems quite a lot lately. Even Pix says I can pull in an empty room."
and now it is
"As most of you could guess I don't have much luck with men."
I know that women are not renowned for their consistency but I think I need to offer you a biscuit for this one ;)
Posted by: Alex | December 02, 2003 at 01:06
Just because you have men falling at your feet doesn't mean that they're the right ones...
Trust me on this one...
Posted by: pix | December 02, 2003 at 01:13
I may have men falling at my feet, but like Pix says, they may not be the right one. When I say bad luck I mean once they are with me they get all possesive and try to change me into something I am not. If they could just accept me for what or who I am it would make life a little more simpler....
Posted by: S | December 02, 2003 at 08:25
I thought it was women who were supposed to change men once they started seeing each other ...
(... before you hit me, that's a joke. I don't want to suffer the wrath of Pix's right hook. And I bet you throw a mean punch, S.)
Posted by: Mark | December 02, 2003 at 10:49
Mark you are absolutely right,I do have a mean right hook, but I also have a very powerful kick but I did study karate for quite a while..... But I will let you off for your remark ;o)
Posted by: S | December 02, 2003 at 13:24
Was that "let" you off or did you mean "get" you off?
Posted by: D | December 02, 2003 at 14:22
Easy there tiger, I wouldn't want to give the wrong impression!
Posted by: S | December 02, 2003 at 15:18
Behave, D.
Sorry, that's Pix's usual comment, isn't it? I'll wait for her to chastise you, D.
Oh, damn, you know that's not what I meant. Erm ...
Right, I'm going home.
Posted by: Mark | December 02, 2003 at 16:29
You!
Doghouse!
Now!
Bad boyfriend. No biscuit.
(satisfied Mark?) ;)
Posted by: pix | December 02, 2003 at 16:34
No, but he will be once Sharon's done with him.
Posted by: D | December 03, 2003 at 09:29
Looks like we're going to need a bigger doghouse, Pix.
Posted by: Mark | December 03, 2003 at 10:48
Boys if you are not careful santa will not let you have your stockings fulfilled, I mean your stockings filled this christmas ;o)....
Posted by: S | December 03, 2003 at 11:24
Oh, S, you're just encouraging him now.
Posted by: Mark | December 03, 2003 at 13:00
I don't think D needs encouraging do you?????
Posted by: S | December 03, 2003 at 16:03
Hmm, I suppose not.
Posted by: Mark | December 03, 2003 at 16:10
You suppose?
He really doesn't.
None at all.
Ever.
Posted by: pix | December 03, 2003 at 16:33
I wasn't actually going to keep commenting here, but since you're all encouraging me to do so...
Posted by: D | December 03, 2003 at 17:51
I wish I had only seen this 9 months ago. He did the same to me.
Posted by: Savannah | December 31, 2007 at 16:15
hi all :)
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